The Holy Spirit has brought the Writer Femmes to our knees this month, as every notion we previously held about friendship has been dissected, tested, crushed and revolutionized.
We innocuously chose the subject matter of Cultivating Friendships as a nice, plain vanilla, non-threatening segue for the MeetUp we will be holding in a few weeks. “Wouldn’t it be great to discuss friendships as we meet and make new friends this month?”
How naïve we were to think that it was us navigating the helm of this subject matter? How arrogant was it of us to believe that we had some authority or command of knowledge about this topic?
Little did we know that this month’s theme would render ourselves speechless, lacking the very words that we thought we wielded with such ease and skill. Being left wordless over such a seemingly benign topic such as friendship is embarrassing for writers, even amateur ones like us, with day jobs so far removed from our shared love of the written word.
Yet, God had completely different plans for this month and for these writers.
Yes, this month has been a period of unhinged soul-searching for us. We have questioned God and cried over lost and toxic friendships; we have repented with remorse over destroyed and damaged friendships; and, we continue to celebrate the friendships that dare to challenge and defy us to move beyond our comfort zones—even if such friendships only existed for a short season in time.
Amidst the flooding of these bittersweet memories of our friends, many of which are painful and raw with emotion, comes conviction. Conviction to become a better friend. Conviction to become a friend like Jesus. With this conviction, comes revelation. Revelation on how to become a better friend. Revelation on how to become a friend like Jesus.
Yesterday, we were writers, writing often for our own vanity and self-promotion, relying very much on our own insight and inspiration.
Today, we are still the same writers, with many of the same flaws, baggage and insecurities we held in the past. However, today we write with a bit more revelation and a slight glimpse into our purpose for writing: to show God’s relentless, unending and passionate love and friendship towards His children.
With this revelation, we are no longer just writers aiming our pens towards some particular demographic or subset of women. Today, we realize that we are writers who have also been called to be prayer warriors and intercessors on behalf of our readers.
Today we unveil our Prayer Requests page, where you can leave a prayer request and know resolutely that there are three of your friends who are on their hands and knees agreeing for you to hear God, feel God and know God in your daily walk.
While we may never meet in person, and while we may never know your real name, know that God has given you friends here at FemmeFuel who have your spiritual back, so to speak. Whatever you are facing, know that we are your friends who will call the Lord into remembrance over your plight, your need or your struggle.
Show us the areas of your life where you are in need of prayer and healing. Let us be that person in your life who stands with you in love and friendship.
You don’t have to go on this faith journey alone when you have friends.
Teach us how to be a better friend to you.
Teach us how to be a friend like Christ.
Teach us about you.
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I am just blown away by the heart y’all are sharing here…thank you for your honesty and your passion to build real relationships.And I have to tell you thanks again for this entire series. I felt that conviction you spoke of, especially after ‘To the Friend Who Slipped Away’, and finally reached out to a friend from my past to offer an apology for losing touch with her. Thanks to the encouragement from you ladies, I have peace in knowing that I made an effort to restore that relationship. Your words have made a difference to me! I’m so glad that we have met via this blog-world–it’s amazing how the family of God can walk together regardless of location. Know that this Carolina girl is standing with you!