A wise woman knows that beauty accumulates through loving and sharing in trusting relationships. A wise woman adds to her beauty by giving many gifts to others. Her giving is wise. It is thoughtful. It is blessing. She knows that her gifts are not up for auction or for grabbing from all sides. Her garden offers fruit and friendship with a sensible, compassionate heart.
This type of wisdom in giving was not gained without many casualties – – primarily through many deaths of herself. If you ask her, she will tell you that her past is splattered with falls down stairs, wipe outs and thoughts of insane asylums. She learned disappointment as she tumbled down stairs that she thought would lead to faithful fellowship. As she lay flat faced on the hard floor, she learned that unbalanced relationships can wipe you out. She genuinely thought she was going nuts when her gifts were received with scorn and rejection.
She has learned that not all giving makes you beautiful. The truth is that you cannot be a wise giver if you haven’t had a few slaps in the face. If fact, you are not a wise giver in your relationships unless you have had your world turned upside down. Upside down is a hard series of lessons to learn. But, a woman like you takes her life lessons in seriousness and in stride.
Upside down means that you cannot be grateful, accommodating, agreeable, encouraging and hospitable without also setting in place wise boundaries around your garden. If you have a well-kept, sturdy fence in your yard, you see the value of your labor. You know what it takes to develop roots that take hold far below the soil. You know that your garden’s rest under the stars prepares it for the rising sun at dawn. You know that, if not for food and water, the blazing sun would harm your garden’s fruit and flowers. You know that, without careful planning for the seasons, your garden may not produce fruit at the right time. You know the value on your labor.
A wise woman knows when to open the gate of her garden’s fence. She is thoughtful and mindful of the needs around her. She is thoughtful and mindful of the hearts set before her. She sees her brothers and sisters coming from a mile away. And, she knows well her collection of treasures from the fruits of her garden. She picks just the right fruit to give at just the right time. This is true giving. This is beautiful.
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